Speaking
of the family as teacher of values makes reference
to a series of actions that imply a whole process
oriented to obtain a definition, a configuration,
a firmness and perfection in each person that
conform the family, procedures that allow us
to reach a greater strength and a better “finish”.
It is universally
accepted that the human being is molded, especially
in the first years of his life, in the bosom
of his own family; it is here, where the family
plays an irreplaceable role in the formation
of the person’s human and Christian personality.
The historical moment that we are living shows
us how the family has given up its identity
and mission to educate the person, with the
consequences that we know: relativism, subjectivism,
sensualism and lack of values in society.
The natural
scene for values is daily life. It is very important
to understand this genuine scene of family values.
Therefore, family life is the profound and stable
authentic opportunity, the vast horizon of the
most excellent human adventure which is, finally,
no other than true, good and beautiful love,
as the highest value. Consequently, the family
has an important and significant mission: to
be teacher of values.
Values define
the “quality'” of a person, not
only from a moral, but also from an ontological
point of view. Values identify with virtues.
Virtue implies a force, vigor and a merit to
act with integrity and rectitude in terms of
achievement of life. Therefore, values have
a richness and hierarchy that enrich the human
being in different dimensions:
• Humanly:
The human nature has certain aims, and when
they are accomplished, man reaches perfection
or his prime. Human nature consists of two elements:
one natural and one rational. Values make reference
to the totality of the person. Here psychological
and sociological aspects fit in. The psychological
approach studies, for example, the person’s
character (his faculties, his talents, his motivations,
etc.) and determines not only how human acts
“are”, but how “they must
be”. That is to say, a person’s
“have to be” is formed. The reflection
on values is also “science of social behavior”.
In fact, many and diverse social conducts are
being formed in the family. Here, the relations
of one “I” with another “I”
focus on each another, taking into account their
dignity as persons.
• Spiritually:
The human being is a biological and spiritual
totality (intelligent and free) that tends to
his final aim by means of the harmonic development
of his faculties. Therefore, it covers other
spheres: The person’s duties relative
to his spirit (formation or culture of intelligence
and will) and the person’s duties relative
to his Creator (interior worship or religion).
This subject
is related to and continues the theme of the
Fifth World Encounter of Families in Valencia,
on the education of faith in the Family. If
we take into account that today’s Christian
has to be a true disciple and missionary in
the Church as well as in the world, our topic
is directly related to the theme of the Fifth
General Conference of the Latin American Episcopal
Council in Aparecida: the family also understood
as teacher of Disciples and Missionaries.
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